The founding circle · Begins December 8, 2026 · Applications close November 22

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Ten to fifteen women, three months, four gatherings. This isn't a test and there are no right answers — but the questions are real, and I read every one myself.

Here's how it works: you fill this out, I read it myself, and I reach out personally within a few days to set up a time to talk, by phone or over coffee. If it feels like a yes for both of us, you save your seat. Nothing is due until then.

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First, the practical part

So I know who you are and how to reach you.

Now the real part

Answer these however they come out. Short is fine. Honest is better than polished — and nobody sees these but me.

What made today the day you're looking at this?

Not why it's a good idea in general. Why now.

What are you done carrying?

Where in your life are you giving more than you're getting back?

You don't have to have this figured out. A guess is fine.

What are you afraid this might bring up?

There's usually something. Saying it here makes it smaller.

What would you like to be true in three months that isn't true now?

One honest question about timing

This matters more than people expect, and there's no wrong answer.

Is there anything happening in your life right now that would make this a hard season to do this kind of work?

A new baby, a move, a loss, a job that's eating you alive. Saying yes doesn't rule you out — it just means we talk about it.

The founding circle is $800

A reduced price, because it's the first one.

Pay it in three monthly installments, or all at once, whichever suits you. Nothing is due now — payment comes after we've talked and you've said yes.